Boyfriend Says He Is Not Ready For a Relationship
What does it mean when your boyfriend says “I am not ready for a relationship”? Or, he says, "I am not ready for anything serious"?
If you have been dating a guy casually and initiated “the talk” about where this relationship is going, you may have heard to your disappointment this kind of answer. What do you do when the man you really like, maybe even love, tells you straight up he is not ready for a serious relationship?
When a guy says these dreaded words, "I am not ready", we try to justify this and practically wreck our brains thinking that perhaps he was hurt in his past relationship, maybe even cheated on, and thus he is scared of his own emotions of getting too close to us.
We talk to our girlfriends and they say, yeah, he is falling too fast for you and is scared that you could hurt him. He is not ready for a relationship because he is still not over the pain his ex caused him. He is afraid that if he falls hard for you, you may hurt him as well.
Let me tell you, when a man says those words, I am not ready, that only means one thing – I am not ready for a relationship with you! YOU ARE not the one!
And then, shortly after saying those words he can be found dating someone else! Worse yet, getting completely SERIOUS about his new girlfriend! In some cases, even marrying her shortly after breaking up with you!
What to do when he is not willing to take the relationship with YOU to the next level?
Of course, there are things you can do to trigger a certain emotional response from him temporarily, but that will be a temporary fix.
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When does a man say “I am not ready for a relationship?” Why does he continue seeing me if he says he doesn't want anything serious? I think he likes me if he keeps calling me! It just couldn't be that he doesn't like me, since he keeps coming back!
Poor dear, when a man sees a woman casually but doesn't want to get serious about her, all that means if that he enjoys her company and the intimacy they have. She is good to spend time with and to have fun with. But she is not the one! She is good for now, but not good to spend the rest of his life with!
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Did you know that most men want the same think that you do – a loving, committed partner for life?
But the problem is that men subconsciously identify certain women as 'wife material', and certain women always stay in the 'girlfriend zone' without the chance of ever getting past the line of becoming the 'wife material'!
And if you have been dating a man for a long time but he can't seem to pop the question, you may be stuck in the 'girlfriend zone'.
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See, you may be thinking that your boyfriend is a commitment phobic. Especially if you have been together for a long time, if you have been trying to convince him that you are the one for him. And you are convinced that he is the one for you.
But for some reason he can't seem to understand that.
He keeps making excuses. He needs to work on his career.... he can't afford to have children right now.... he is not ready.... he is not sure.... he doesn't know that he wants... and many more excuses along the same lines....
....and what's worse is that when he does eventually graduate from college..... and does eventually get a job..... and does get promoted..... and meets all of the criteria he was mentioning as his excuse not to commit and get married.... he keeps coming up with new excuses... over and over...
....and you finally have had enough.... you leave him because you think he is a commitment phobic...
.......and next thing you know.... just a few months later he is already engaged to someone else....
.......and you just can't understand why! Why NOT ME!
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See, men are not much in touch with their emotions and feelings... and they can't tell you what it is that's missing... he just knows it's not there... but can't explain why...
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