He Doesn't Call After The First Date – Great Date But He Doesn't Call
June 22, 2009 by admin
Filed under Why Men Don't Call
The time after the first date can be a very emotional experience. The excitement of what to do next can be racing through your mind. These emotions are magnified even further if the date was a success. This however is a time to slow down and play it cool. The last thing anyone wants to do is scare of a potential Mr Right.
There are many excited singles longing to reach for the phone at the first opportunity. Getting to know someone doesn’t need to be achieved within a few days, it’s a process that needs to take time. The relationship needs space to breath. A day or two after the first date is a perfect time to collect thoughts, and as they say, absence makes the heart grow fonder.
When you do get around to that first phone call remember to stay relaxed and don’t come across as being infatuated. Try to get a sense of how the date went for the other person. When the time is right mention how the date went for you, and see what type of response you get. If it’s a positive one you have the option of talking about another date, or playing it cool a little longer. Maybe call him again in another couple of days, but still leave him with the feeling that you are very interested. You don’t want to give him the impression you are not as this could put doubts in his mind.
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And when he does call you eventually, here is what to do:
The next call should be about the second date if you haven’t mentioned it in the previous call. The guy will typically arrange a quiet place for the date so you can still chat in comfort, and get to know him a bit more.
As the dates progress, adding fun to it can bring two people closer. Trying an activity for the first time like bowling can create some humor. Learn to laugh together, it’s a very romantic emotion.
The time after your first date can be an exciting, emotional experience. Remember to relax, play it cool, and don’t come across as being infatuated, and everything should run along smoothly. Want to know how to make sure he falls in love and asks you to marry him? Find out at Find a Husband
one of my friends friends had this huuuuge crush on me. he would ask all my friends about me, but at the time i wasnt trying to get involved with anyone. i was leaving town for 6 months. well anyway, 6 months pass and i come back. the guy is still here and he is still crushing on me. mind you i really like him too. both of us are jus to shy to make a move/we're on differnt scheldules. so long story short, i eventually gave him my number through a friend(too nervous to do it myself. lol) he textss the next day..boom..we talk for like 5 hrs. getiing to know each other. "favorite color. what are your interest" ect. good conversation. finaly, we go on our first date. he cooks, i come over. i was soooo shy/nervous being that this is our first time speaking face to face. the date was super akward being that we both were shy and knew we liked each other but it was still fun i guess. well night goes by...we kiss...i leave...no call! a few days later i call him. boom! convo picks back up where it started...he had a good time. ok, im happy again. well, another few days pass. no call. wtf! i text again...back where we started again! this time he was being a little rude though. he says he was only teasing but i didnt understand his rude sarcasm. now its been 5 days. no call or nothing. im so confused. im not gonna chase this guy but im so curious as to some reasons for his behavior. anything?