Comments on: My Boyfriend Doesn't Call Me For Days – What Does It Mean? http://why-he-doesnt-call.com/blog/2009/07/12/my-boyfriend-doesnt-call-me-for-days-%e2%80%93-what-does-it-mean/ Why Men Stop Calling And What To Do About It Tue, 07 Sep 2010 14:36:45 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 By: Rosa http://why-he-doesnt-call.com/blog/2009/07/12/my-boyfriend-doesnt-call-me-for-days-%e2%80%93-what-does-it-mean/comment-page-1/#comment-2798 Rosa Tue, 07 Sep 2010 14:36:45 +0000 http://why-he-doesnt-call.com/blog/?p=185#comment-2798 Hey girls.. I sooooo feel uuu. I'm going thru the same thing as well. It feels horrible! It's becoming a love-hate relationship now.. can't let him go yet I'm hating each day hurting myself. I'm thinking of letting go the relationship but I dunno where to start. Maybe im just scared to be lonely but frankly, i love him like crazy.. We don't talk often (maybe like twice a month). He's life is all about himself, his family and friends.. it seems that I don't matter. What's worst is that our relationship is a distant one since about 1yr now (million miles away). His words are very hurting as well. He told me that i'm with him coz of money and that since he's white and i'm tan, he said I'm with him coz i want my kids to be light-skinned. It hurts. I feel like running away so far or perhaps disappear into thin air. My opinions were also disregarded.. i don't hv the freedom to express my feelings cause he'll never wanna listen to anything i say. I dunno why i'm still holding on, i've lost touch with the person i once knew.. he's someone i love so dearly yet he seems to be a stranger to me, comfortable in his own world where i don't even exists... Hey girls.. I sooooo feel uuu. I'm going thru the same thing as well. It feels horrible! It's becoming a love-hate relationship now.. can't let him go yet I'm hating each day hurting myself. I'm thinking of letting go the relationship but I dunno where to start. Maybe im just scared to be lonely but frankly, i love him like crazy.. We don't talk often (maybe like twice a month). He's life is all about himself, his family and friends.. it seems that I don't matter. What's worst is that our relationship is a distant one since about 1yr now (million miles away). His words are very hurting as well. He told me that i'm with him coz of money and that since he's white and i'm tan, he said I'm with him coz i want my kids to be light-skinned. It hurts. I feel like running away so far or perhaps disappear into thin air. My opinions were also disregarded.. i don't hv the freedom to express my feelings cause he'll never wanna listen to anything i say. I dunno why i'm still holding on, i've lost touch with the person i once knew.. he's someone i love so dearly yet he seems to be a stranger to me, comfortable in his own world where i don't even exists...

]]> By: Kendra http://why-he-doesnt-call.com/blog/2009/07/12/my-boyfriend-doesnt-call-me-for-days-%e2%80%93-what-does-it-mean/comment-page-1/#comment-2794 Kendra Sat, 28 Aug 2010 02:20:03 +0000 http://why-he-doesnt-call.com/blog/?p=185#comment-2794 My boyfriend didn't call me for days either. I didn't know what to think... I was so worried. And for good reason, it turned out he had died. That was worst feeling in the world. That's why I always tell people call or text the ones you love to let them know you're okay. No one should ever have to go through the hell, pain, and misery i am going through. I know alot of you guys be worried too, when you can't get get in touch with your boyfriends. I hope everything works out for you guys. And I agree with you Daisy, I will never love again. I am afraid he may die. My boyfriend didn't call me for days either. I didn't know what to think... I was so worried. And for good reason, it turned out he had died. That was worst feeling in the world. That's why I always tell people call or text the ones you love to let them know you're okay. No one should ever have to go through the hell, pain, and misery i am going through. I know alot of you guys be worried too, when you can't get get in touch with your boyfriends. I hope everything works out for you guys. And I agree with you Daisy, I will never love again. I am afraid he may die.

]]> By: In lov http://why-he-doesnt-call.com/blog/2009/07/12/my-boyfriend-doesnt-call-me-for-days-%e2%80%93-what-does-it-mean/comment-page-1/#comment-2747 In lov Wed, 07 Jul 2010 16:41:16 +0000 http://why-he-doesnt-call.com/blog/?p=185#comment-2747 I m awso facing the same challenge.Me and my bf met few months back but it seems to me that he is used to me now. The way he treats me culd tell. He will neva call or text me for dayz and if I complain bout that than he will tell me that he is very buzy. He will only tell me what he might be buzy with if I m seriously gettin to dump him. There are times that he will ignore ma phone calls after requesting to pay me a visit at my flat. I am not sure whether I am the only women in his life as he is having kids with the previous gf. and he will neva discuss bout the relationship he is having with the kids and their mother. Is he perhaps still seeing the kidz mother or wot? I m seriously attracted to him.shuld I get out of this ASAP or shuld I still stay and observe? we are dating for 4 months now.will things get worse in the long run or will it improve as he is saying that I should give him time as things will get better? shuld I still hang-on and what will indicate that he will be my future husband as he dont want to let go off me? I m awso facing the same challenge.Me and my bf met few months back but it seems to me that he is used to me now. The way he treats me culd tell. He will neva call or text me for dayz and if I complain bout that than he will tell me that he is very buzy. He will only tell me what he might be buzy with if I m seriously gettin to dump him. There are times that he will ignore ma phone calls after requesting to pay me a visit at my flat. I am not sure whether I am the only women in his life as he is having kids with the previous gf. and he will neva discuss bout the relationship he is having with the kids and their mother. Is he perhaps still seeing the kidz mother or wot? I m seriously attracted to him.shuld I get out of this ASAP or shuld I still stay and observe? we are dating for 4 months now.will things get worse in the long run or will it improve as he is saying that I should give him time as things will get better? shuld I still hang-on and what will indicate that he will be my future husband as he dont want to let go off me?

]]> By: naina http://why-he-doesnt-call.com/blog/2009/07/12/my-boyfriend-doesnt-call-me-for-days-%e2%80%93-what-does-it-mean/comment-page-1/#comment-2710 naina Thu, 01 Jul 2010 01:27:35 +0000 http://why-he-doesnt-call.com/blog/?p=185#comment-2710 leave him....itz nt worth loving him so mch..even im going 2 leave my boyfreind..coz he doesnt call me...n wen i call him...suppose on wednesday ,he texts me dat honey i ll talk 2 u on saturday....as if i hv 2 take appointment 2 talk 2 him.... leave him....itz nt worth loving him so mch..even im going 2 leave my boyfreind..coz he doesnt call me...n wen i call him...suppose on wednesday ,he texts me dat honey i ll talk 2 u on saturday....as if i hv 2 take appointment 2 talk 2 him....

]]> By: vonn http://why-he-doesnt-call.com/blog/2009/07/12/my-boyfriend-doesnt-call-me-for-days-%e2%80%93-what-does-it-mean/comment-page-1/#comment-2681 vonn Fri, 14 May 2010 23:20:39 +0000 http://why-he-doesnt-call.com/blog/?p=185#comment-2681 Im 23 a male yea im gay. .can someone please help me. Now I haven't been dating this boi this boi that long. But its been two months. His name is sheer. I believe that if someone is able to make sacrifices also proves that your into them.during our first month we were completely ga ga over each other. But in that month i needed to go to Arizona to bread some pits with my partner. After my partner brought ticket made arrangements I didn't go because of puppy love. I just was so into shaeer and he was thrilled. But then a week later I was going thru a tuff time and he left me to go to smoke weed in the bronx. Early afternoon he left didn't come back until about 3am said he didn't cheat. I really needed him day day I told him how i felt and he said I just wanted to argue that's what he always say when i express my feelings. Then one morning we had some dumb arrgument about some bullshit I forget but wasnt important. I dropped him off home and wasn't talking. I called repeatedly to apologize even though it was our fault but he wouldn't answer because he is power hungry. I pulled over to text him im sorry then i was car jackkd. After 2hours lata he finally answers and he breaks up with me all he could think about was the little argument. Then i cried and he then left to Washington dc. We got back together as he was away then he wouldn't call me for days i confronted him he said sorry. Then he said he will b coming home the next day then the next day. Finally its been a week the day he said was was leaving all of a sudden he goes a whole day with out answering his phone then the next day he says he thought he lost it but intact it was in his friends car. He says im sorry baay gets on bus with thoughts of being with me to make up on his mind so i thought. He tells me later that night he is local again but he is going to Brooklyn to smoke with friends. I said fine can i pick up later this was around 9 he says no no someone is going to drop me back off home. We live in newark different places. So I said ok baay just call when u get in he text ok. We never talked while he was away just text. Come to find out he never came home that night he came back today this afternoon. I broken up with him he didn't care about me just weed and friends is what he thought about. I felt unappreciated and neglected the whole two months but was he cheating ?someone help me And does he or could he really care about me? He hasn't called me since i called it off he never really had a problem with not calling me. Ladies what should i do should I let my love go for him.and its not true when they say what u cant see wont hurt u. Because sometimes what u cant see u feel and I really feel hurt i dont kno wut to do i want to call but i should love myself .but i love shaeer still. Help im serious Im 23 a male yea im gay. .can someone please help me. Now I haven't been dating this boi this boi that long. But its been two months. His name is sheer. I believe that if someone is able to make sacrifices also proves that your into them.during our first month we were completely ga ga over each other. But in that month i needed to go to Arizona to bread some pits with my partner. After my partner brought ticket made arrangements I didn't go because of puppy love. I just was so into shaeer and he was thrilled. But then a week later I was going thru a tuff time and he left me to go to smoke weed in the bronx. Early afternoon he left didn't come back until about 3am said he didn't cheat. I really needed him day day I told him how i felt and he said I just wanted to argue that's what he always say when i express my feelings.

Then one morning we had some dumb arrgument about some bullshit I forget but wasnt important. I dropped him off home and wasn't talking. I called repeatedly to apologize even though it was our fault but he wouldn't answer because he is power hungry. I pulled over to text him im sorry then i was car jackkd. After 2hours lata he finally answers and he breaks up with me all he could think about was the little argument.

Then i cried and he then left to Washington dc. We got back together as he was away then he wouldn't call me for days i confronted him he said sorry. Then he said he will b coming home the next day then the next day. Finally its been a week the day he said was was leaving all of a sudden he goes a whole day with out answering his phone then the next day he says he thought he lost it but intact it was in his friends car. He says im sorry baay gets on bus with thoughts of being with me to make up on his mind so i thought. He tells me later that night he is local again but he is going to Brooklyn to smoke with friends.

I said fine can i pick up later this was around 9 he says no no someone is going to drop me back off home. We live in newark different places. So I said ok baay just call when u get in he text ok. We never talked while he was away just text. Come to find out he never came home that night he came back today this afternoon. I broken up with him he didn't care about me just weed and friends is what he thought about. I felt unappreciated and neglected the whole two months but was he cheating ?someone help me
And does he or could he really care about me?

He hasn't called me since i called it off he never really had a problem with not calling me. Ladies what should i do should I let my love go for him.and its not true when they say what u cant see wont hurt u. Because sometimes what u cant see u feel and I really feel hurt i dont kno wut to do i want to call but i should love myself .but i love shaeer still. Help im serious

]]> By: valerie http://why-he-doesnt-call.com/blog/2009/07/12/my-boyfriend-doesnt-call-me-for-days-%e2%80%93-what-does-it-mean/comment-page-1/#comment-2670 valerie Wed, 28 Apr 2010 19:55:42 +0000 http://why-he-doesnt-call.com/blog/?p=185#comment-2670 been seein dis guy for a month now.we do chat on IM but i always start wit the chat.its a kinda a LDRelationship.he always tells me dat if he doesn't call or text doesn't mean he doesn't care or think about me.we chat for hrs non stop.am gettin so attached to him.ve complained but wat he told he's not just use to being this far frum sme1 he wants and cared about.and he's not very good in gisting on the phone dat he wld rather c me.i went over last to c him and he said he's planning comin over to spend sme time.he's also planning to get me a job where he's.but am confused does he rili care.he said he thinks about me everytime dat my picture is imprinted in his head.dat i sholud just be patient.but for how long.i want to settle down soon and he's agein too lol.i nid to know cos i ve a guy some where buggin me but i feel nothing for him despite the fact dat a pastor said he's my future partner.but no hard feelings am so confused :( been seein dis guy for a month now.we do chat on IM but i always start wit the chat.its a kinda a LDRelationship.he always tells me dat if he doesn't call or text doesn't mean he doesn't care or think about me.we chat for hrs non stop.am gettin so attached to him.ve complained but wat he told he's not just use to being this far frum sme1 he wants and cared about.and he's not very good in gisting on the phone dat he wld rather c me.i went over last to c him and he said he's planning comin over to spend sme time.he's also planning to get me a job where he's.but am confused does he rili care.he said he thinks about me everytime dat my picture is imprinted in his head.dat i sholud just be patient.but for how long.i want to settle down soon and he's agein too lol.i nid to know cos i ve a guy some where buggin me but i feel nothing for him despite the fact dat a pastor said he's my future partner.but no hard feelings am so confused :(

]]> By: kinky http://why-he-doesnt-call.com/blog/2009/07/12/my-boyfriend-doesnt-call-me-for-days-%e2%80%93-what-does-it-mean/comment-page-1/#comment-2663 kinky Tue, 23 Mar 2010 00:15:09 +0000 http://why-he-doesnt-call.com/blog/?p=185#comment-2663 thank ladies I feel exactly the same way now. U give ur all to someone and all they do is just get a big head. Am not talking abt sex either. exactly how is it so hard to call and say hi, been thinking abt u. Are there any normal guys out there anymore ?? Why do we have to beg for a text. thank ladies I feel exactly the same way now. U give ur all to someone and all they do is just get a big head. Am not talking abt sex either. exactly how is it so hard to call and say hi, been thinking abt u. Are there any normal guys out there anymore ?? Why do we have to beg for a text.

]]> By: LadiesMan http://why-he-doesnt-call.com/blog/2009/07/12/my-boyfriend-doesnt-call-me-for-days-%e2%80%93-what-does-it-mean/comment-page-1/#comment-2661 LadiesMan Mon, 15 Mar 2010 01:28:42 +0000 http://why-he-doesnt-call.com/blog/?p=185#comment-2661 Ladies, listen to me since I am a guy. No matter how many hours I work, I usually find a minute or 20 minutes out of my 24 hrs to check up on my girlfriend. So if your man is acting busy, then he is not that into you. He is either using you for sex or just like the attention. Sometimes it's easier for us guys to find girls. Sometimes I can't help it but I love my girl and that keeps me from cheating. Before I met my girlfriend, I was dating 3 girls at the same time. I usually will ignore her to make it easier for me. I rather make her leave then me kicking her out. That way it was easier. Ladies, listen to me since I am a guy. No matter how many hours I work, I usually find a minute or 20 minutes out of my 24 hrs to check up on my girlfriend. So if your man is acting busy, then he is not that into you. He is either using you for sex or just like the attention. Sometimes it's easier for us guys to find girls. Sometimes I can't help it but I love my girl and that keeps me from cheating.

Before I met my girlfriend, I was dating 3 girls at the same time. I usually will
ignore her to make it easier for me. I rather make her leave then me kicking her out. That way it was easier.

]]> By: nita http://why-he-doesnt-call.com/blog/2009/07/12/my-boyfriend-doesnt-call-me-for-days-%e2%80%93-what-does-it-mean/comment-page-1/#comment-2660 nita Fri, 12 Mar 2010 14:01:24 +0000 http://why-he-doesnt-call.com/blog/?p=185#comment-2660 ive been with my boyfriend for 2 months. We spent an awesome day at his house no sex just he spoilt me so much. The next day he even text to ask if my parents now know bout him andwat they said. Then he stopped calling or speaking to me. If i ask wats wrong he says im working and sick. I asked if i can call he said im busy callu later and he never called. I miss i call him he wont pick up. Even if i call from other numbers and he cant see whose calling him. I text him to ask if he wants me to go away just say so and ill dissappear. But he wont reply.im so heartbroken i feel like dyi ng ive been with my boyfriend for 2 months. We spent an awesome day at his house no sex just he spoilt me so much. The next day he even text to ask if my parents now know bout him andwat they said. Then he stopped calling or speaking to me. If i ask wats wrong he says im working and sick. I asked if i can call he said im busy callu later and he never called. I miss i call him he wont pick up. Even if i call from other numbers and he cant see whose calling him. I text him to ask if he wants me to go away just say so and ill dissappear. But he wont reply.im so heartbroken i feel like dyi
ng

]]> By: Veronica http://why-he-doesnt-call.com/blog/2009/07/12/my-boyfriend-doesnt-call-me-for-days-%e2%80%93-what-does-it-mean/comment-page-1/#comment-2659 Veronica Tue, 09 Mar 2010 16:24:06 +0000 http://why-he-doesnt-call.com/blog/?p=185#comment-2659 Veronica again, I did tell my "boyfriend" that if he met someone, he should be honest and tell me so that I can move on with my life - I'm still waiting for him to tell me. Yet he said that he would never hurt me. Veronica again, I did tell my "boyfriend" that if he met someone, he should be honest and tell me so that I can move on with my life - I'm still waiting for him to tell me. Yet he said that he would never hurt me.

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