Why My Boyfriend Doesn't Call – Why Won't He Call Me?

October 5, 2009 by Elaine Demodel  
Filed under Why Men Don't Call

Whether you are in a new relationship or have been with your boyfriend for some time the reasons he doesn't call you can range from him not wanting to talk to you to simply being busy. When you ask yourself this question, why doesn't my boyfriend call me? you need to access his overall behavior in a relationship. If you expect your boyfriend to call you several times a day just to chat you may be in for disappointment.

Most men don't call women several times a day just to say hello. If you demand that your boyfriend call you several times a day every single day you are placing unnecessary burdensome demands on your boyfriend. In fact asking your boyfriend to call you this much will most certainly send him a signal that you are insecure and needy. Being too clingy is a sure fire way to turn him off and kill the attraction. As long as your boyfriend calls you regularly, you should not demand that he call you like a clock, although some men have a pattern of calling women around the same time every day.

If he is a busy guy and has a demanding job chances are he will not call you during work hours. And if he has to work after hours, don't expect to hear from him till he gets home, or even the following day. Understand that while it is all well and great to want to hear from your boyfriend all the time, there are other priorities in his life that sometimes may take precedence over calling his girlfriend.

On the other hand, if you call your boyfriend several times a day just to say hello, just to chat like you would with your girlfriends, or just to share some exciting news, don't expect him to repay you in kind. He already knows that you are going to call him. He has already talked to you twice today. If you don't hear from him for the rest of the day, be sure that he doesn't call you because he has already talked to you, in fact more then once that same day.

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