Does He Love Me If He Doesn't Call? How To Tell If He Is In Love With You
I remember one guy I dated a long time ago told me that sending text messages throughout the day just telling your partner you miss them or think about them brightens their day...
And I also remembered that when I and my man started dating, he used to text me 'I miss u' all the time. I thought he had saved that text message in his phone and just hit the re-send button every time he wanted to send it to me again...
I told him he wasn't creative or original, so the next time he texted 'I love you' in Italian whatever it sounds like, I don't remember now.
I thought he was such a goof.... and you know how to tell if a guy is head over heels in love with you? It's when he seems to have lost his masculinity and has turned into a goof, a sick looking puppy.... and when he doesn't really look like he did when you first met.... like he is not the manly man around you anymore. He has turned into a little boy... the little boy he was when he was five....
And you may be surprised by the changes in him. You start to not see him for exactly the charismatic, strong leader he used to be. Now, around you, he is a little boy. He smiles for no reason. He walks on the air. And everyone who sees him thinks he is in love.
And then he opens up to you. And you can see his heart. The doors to his heart are wide open. And you can look inside. And you know he is vulnerable. He doesn't like it. But he can't do anything about it. He won't resent you for that, but he is scared. Because it's a scary place to let someone in completely.
We, women have an easier time letting others into our hearts. We are nurturers. Men are hunters. They are supposed to be strong.
He may be telling you he hates this feeling because it makes him feel weak and vulnerable. And you know he is falling for you.
So, what's changed?
I explain in great depth the process of a relationship development from the first time we meet someone to I Do in Guide To Commitment It takes two to tango... and if you don't know the relationship stages, you can miss some very critical signs and more importantly not know how to react and what to do when your boyfriend goes through those cycles.
It's not abnormal for a man to stop calling you when the initial infatuation wears off. He may cut down contact or may stop calling you completely.
What should you do? Understanding the stages of a relationship that I describe in Guide To Commitment will help you set on a path of self-development, and nurture those budding feelings without breaking anything.