Will He Call Me After a One Night Stand?

January 21, 2010 by Elaine Demodel  
Filed under Will He Call Me?

If you met a guy and had a one night stand it is natural to wonder, will he call me after a one night stand? When a woman agrees to a one night stand with a guy it is usually because she is attracted to him and want to see more of him. That's when you start wondering, will he call me? Or, if you have his number you may even contemplate calling him. If you had a one night stand and he hasn't called you, and you are wondering Should I Call Him? Read this article to understand why guys call women and why they don't after a one night stand.

The reason a woman has a one night stand with a guy is because she is attracted to him in the first place. The reason a guy has a one night stand with a woman is because she is available, not because he is attracted to her. This is why so many magazine articles, books, and the media always suggest that you shouldn't have a one night stand with a guy. It's not because he will like you less after a one night stand or won't respect you. It's simply because at this point you just don't know if he is attracted to you, and likes you enough to want to have a relationship, or at least something that goes beyond a one night stand.

A guy will almost always take an opportunity to have a one night stand once it is presented. He may look at a woman and think, well, I don't want to have a relationship with her, or, I don't like her enough for a relationship but she is ok for a one night stand.

Will he call you or not after a one night stand will depend on whether he likes you enough, and at the time you met liked you enough already to want to see you again. Having a one night stand does not by any means diminish your chances to see him again. It's only if he didn't like you enough to want to see you again before you hooked up, then he won't call on. On the other hand, there are reasons he liked you, but won't call you back. Those reasons are multiple and knowing why he won't call you, and moreover knowing how to change that and get him to call you is critical if you want to see this guy again.

I've successfully helped women get their guys to call them again after a one night stand. You can read success stories and learn how to get him to call you after a one night stand at This Page

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