He Is Busy A Guy Who Is Too Busy For You

February 25, 2010 by Elaine Demodel  
Filed under Dating Advice

Have you ever dated a guy who is always too busy to make it to a date, has to cancel on a short notice, always has some plausible excuses for not showing up or not calling you? If you have found yourself in this type of situation, ask yourself, is this really what you want? Granted, some guys have so much baggage and drama, dying relatives, crashing airplanes, messy divorce proceedings, messed up child custody situation, business meetings, just to name a few.

So, what should you do if a guy you've made arrangements cancels on you on a short notice, doesn't call you when he says he will, and generally shows disrespect for your time and social commitment he makes?

If you guy, any guy you date, any friend guy, or even your boyfriend does any of these things on a regular basis, perhaps you should ask yourself if you really want to make a commitment to a date with him. And if this is your boyfriend who does that, obviously you are not his priority. Perhaps you should not make him your priority and build your schedule around his messed up life.

There aren't shortage of good eligible single men, and holding onto the guy who clearly has too much baggage of drama, or a boyfriend who doesn't treat you as a priority is not a good way of thinking.

If you are involved with this kind of man, don't try to change him. A person who has showed that he can't be trusted, he can't keep his word, or whose baggage is just too much to be maintained without imposing on someone else's schedule, is not a good dating partner, and not a very good friend to begin with.

If a guy really wants to see you, he will push his other commitments or move them to see you. And this is the guy you want to date.

If you want to learn more about how to get a guy call you, keep his commitments to you and give you respect, go to This Page to learn how to make a guy call you and keep his promisses!

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