Why Men Always Disappear
April 28, 2010 by admin
Filed under Why Men Don't Call
If you have been dating for at least a few months, you know by now that men HAVE A TENDENCY to 'drop the ball' so to speak right in the middle of what seemed to be a budding relationship.
It could have been online; it could have been after you met and he said he'd call you but never did; it could have been after a first date that went great; it could have been after several dates, or even after dating exclusively for weeks and even months.
Why do men do this? Why do they ALWAYS disappear and you never hear a word of explanation?
You'd much rather know what went wrong and why he acted like this. And the question you want to know the answer to most is, will he call me ever again or should I just move on?
You know you can't sit and wait forever. You know you are a desirable woman who deserves to find a man who will adore you and love you unconditionally.
But this guy seemed so great!
We all know, good men are a dime a dozen, but you want that particular one who doesn't call!
If you want to just know why he disappeared, here is the answer:
Men do not like 'drama'. They don't want to see and hear you cry; they don't want arguments and fights; they are afraid to invite drama of dealing with an upset woman. So, they just disappear and never call you again hoping that you will never call them!
They are hiding their heads into the sand and pretend you don't exist. They move on and find a new romantic interest, but when you call them, and if you are lucky enough to have hidden your caller ID, and the disappeared man answers your call, he won't tell you he's moved on because he doesn't want all the drama that comes with it. He is just hoping that you will 'get it'.
Yes, the key word here is – 'get it'. See, men want women who 'get it'. Yes, their secret desire is to find a woman who will 'get it'. And if he thinks you don't get it, he will not want to deal with explanations. And perhaps he doesn't know why he just doesn't feel it anymore. It just doesn't feel right.
So, there you have it; he was interested at first; you saw each other however many times; as he got to know you he realized that there was something missing, and that you are not the one who 'gets it'; he moved on.
He doesn't dwell on it; but unless you have been in a serious relationship; and sometimes even when you were in fact in a serious relationship, he doesn't feel that you need an explanation, because he is hoping that when he disappears on you and doesn't call you, you will for a change 'get it'.
There are always reasons why men disappear. Knowing those reasons can help you prevent this type of situation in the future. This Page explains many reasons why men stop calling, and what you must do to prevent this from happening and how to make him call you again, even if you haven't heard from him in a while, so ==> Click Here To Read Now!






Ive been friends with this guy for years. We've been there for eachother through a lot. We've had a flirtation the whole time and did date briefly a couple of years ago, but after some confusion we never did get together. Recently he asked me to be his girlfriend and I accepted, however, after only a few months he broke it off saying he had family issues that he didn't want to discuss and didn't have time to be a good boyfriend. He was tearful and professed his care for me and his desire to try again in the future and remain friends. Several times during the talk he was conserned with my showing little emotion to which I explaned that I was more conserned for him and that I didn't want to loose our friendship (partly - and unexpressed to him I realized that we were not compatible in a BF/GF relationship). A few days later he text me - we've text a few times, more, but when I asked what had happened, for no other motive than to be there for him he never answered and I have not heard from him since. I realize he probably broke it off because he wasn't feeling it, but I really don't want to lose a long standing friendship. What can I do to get past this and back to being friends.
Women do this too.
My big brother's girlfriend 'stop calling' recently. He is in a motion now and is rather comfused. But all the female members in the family has 'got it'... That girl has dumped him and is definitely moving on.
Just want to say what a great blog you got here!
I've been around for quite a lot of time, but finally decided to show my appreciation of your work!
Thumbs up, and keep it going!
Cheers
Christian,
I'm so happy I found the answer to what I've been pondering for awhile now. I can sleep better at nite and not worry about what I did wrong. My scenrio: I met this guy, very cool, alittle strange, but an overall good dude; we spent some time together and talked regularly on the phone, text, or met up a couple of times in person, the connection was good at first, however, all of a sudden, he stop calling and texting, and pretended as if we never talked a day in a life. I will ADMIT, I wasn't feeling him at first, but, then a growth of likeness came about, but, when it did the flavor had disappear on his end. I will admit, I was disappointed, but that's life. It hurts sometimes, again, LIFE! Great site, thanks again...