He Wants Me To Text Him My Picture
He Wants Me To Text Him My Pic - What Do You Think About This Guy?
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Here is another e-mail from a subscriber. She wanted to poll my readers to see if anyone will have something to say about this interesting date.
I met this guy on a free dating site. He e-mailed me and then he sent me an IM when I was online, so we chatted for a little bit but I said I had to run, here is my number and to call me sometime when he wants to go out.
He texted me right away so that I would have his number and I responded, ok I got it, talk soon.
He since texted me here and there trying to set up a date, but we didn’t meet for a couple of weeks because of our different schedules.
Last weekend he called and texted me but I already had plans, so he said how about next week? And I said I’d have to look at my schedule because I had no idea.
So, he said, ok, let me know.
On Monday I was going to go out to eat by myself, so I called him to see if he wanted to keep me company and he did. We went to a local hangout to eat; nothing fancy, not like a five star restaurant, more like a dive but great food. We had a nice and fun conversation, a little sexual, but nothing too hardcore.
He dropped me off at my place after dinner and said he wanted to kiss me. I said, ok sure I know guys expect a kiss at the end of the date. He said, well, I know if the kiss is good sex will be good also, so this is how I “test” the girl. Well, it was all said in a flirty tone of voice. We kissed, it was nice and I went home.
He texts me that evening, “great good nite kiss! Look forward to seeing you again soon.”
I was asleep so I got his text message the following day and responded, “look forward to it too.”
Then he said, “send me some pictures.”
I didn’t send him anything and just left it like that.
But the following day it was real hot outside and I wanted to go swimming. I sent him a text “do you have a pool at your place?” and he texted back “why? Do you want to go swimming together?” I said “sure, where?” He responded, “I am flying to LA tonight. don’t you have a poll at your place? I don’t have one here.” I said, “I usually go swimming at the gym. What time is your flight?” He said, “8:30” and then texted “you should invite me to your gym”. I text back “right now? Won’t you be late for your flight?” He says, “not tonight, silly”. So, anyway, we keep chatting back and forth and somehow our conversation turns sexual. He sends me a pic of himself wearing briefs. I say “did you just take this pic?” He says “maybe”.
I am like, “whatever”. So, he says “when can we go skinny-dipping?” So, I go along with that. He wants to make plans and brainstorms where we can go. Then he gets on the plane.
Late at night (apparently when he got to his hotel room in LA) he re-sends me his shirtless pic and asks me if it arouses me. I just ignore it. But the day after I respond “it’s hard to see on this screen. Do you have any more pics for me?” He responds right away “no, but I can take more for you. I am on the road; send me a sexy pic of you to brighten up my day.” I was on the road too, so I said I was driving. Then he asks me if we are still on to go to the gym together this weekend, and I confirm.
So, here is my question, Elaine:
What do you think of this? Does this guy only want sex? Your thoughts are much appreciated. Thanks in advance.
Ok, here is my take on the situation. For one, kudos to you for not sending him a pic of yourself. Like I said in my Texting Guide if you had a chance to read it, do not send a guy dirty pictures of yourself. You never know who’s going to see them. Additionally, you’ve just met him. You don’t know how many girls are sending him dirty pics of themselves. It appears that this is not the first time he is asking a girl to send him pics, since he was so natural at asking you for them, he probably is trained to ask girls to send him pics by now. And I bet he’s got a little surprise collection of them on his phone.
As far as what he is interested in… You don’t know at this point. You’ve just met. Go out and see for yourself. Since he asks you to go work out together, why not do so? It appears that he is at this time interested in more than just sex, otherwise he would not have asked you to meet him at the gym. Pretty difficult to have sex at the gym, don’t you think?
Just go with the flaw, and don’t worry too much about him texting you sexual messages. A woman can turn a relationship any way she wants. Guys want sex; we all know that. There is nothing wrong with that. It is up to you, as a woman to steer your dating relationship in any direction you want. If you agree on just having sex, he will go with it, trust me. But you need to do other things together if you are not happy with just a hook up. And it appears that the guy has had a lot of experience with women. And that’s ok. It doesn’t mean that he is a player. What matters is how you turn your relationship around; that’s what it is going to be.
If you want to make sure you are not just a booty call for him, I strongly recommend that you look into my guide on how to make a guy fall in love with you which you can find at Make Him Fall In Love.