He Didn't Call After a Second Date |Hot Date But He Never Calls
July 13, 2010 by admin
Filed under Why Men Don't Call
If you remember this weirdo texting guy who wanted my subscriber to text him a dirty picture of her, which she didn’t, she went against all the advice given to her by me and everyone else who commented on my previous blog post and actually did end up having a hot date with this guy.
Here is how it went. They had exchanged a few text messages in the course of setting up the date. When he asked her through text messaging what she wanted to do she said she wanted to go to a hot tub room. He made all the arrangements and they went to a private hot tub room.
I will leave out the names for privacy and all the graphic details to the extent that I can, but will say that she reports that they did not have an intercourse or even oral sex of any form but they did fool around in a private hot tub room he rented for an hour which was HER idea (sounds like something men do when they get a hooker LOL) which resulted in his ejaculation.
He told her she was beautiful, had a great body, blah, blah, blah.
He never called her after that. It’s been a little over a week. She shared with me her conversation she had with the guy during that date, and as I see it he did not call her as a result of what she had said to him (nothing bad or mean); but I will address this conversation and why he didn’t call her after that at a later time in one of my next blog posts. First I want to hear what you think about their second date and why he dropped the ball and didn’t call after this hot second date.
As a side note, I really like Gina’s clairvoyant comment on the previous blog post – the first part of this story. Here is what she said:
..."I got it going on like that and only out for a good time...ready to be another notch on my belt?" You can be naive enough to believe this might be a possible "good catch" but believe me you'll be just another collected phone pic he shagged before moving on to the next dame he meets for a cheap date at her local dive"... because this is what actually happened after, so this is actually funny, but I’ll tell you in just a sec.
The only point I disagree with in Gina’s comment is naming the girl in this story "Ms. I Wanna A Relationship" because it doesn’t sound to me like she actually wants a relationship with this guy. She refers to him as a "tool" which she wants to keep in her Rolodex for when she feels like seeing him again for another hot date. But here is the funny part: she actually wrote to me because she thought it was hilarious.
She said it was awkward and funny at the same time. She had gone out on a nice date at a park (her initiative again) with another guy. It was cold and windy and they had decided to continue the date some place warmer. As they drove back to town from the park there was nothing on a side of the road except a stinky dive that smelled like bathroom. Not having any other options in close proximity her date offered to stop by there to play a game of pool. They went in and her date approached the counter to order drinks. She followed him, got a sit next to him and they got the drinks. The dive was relatively busy and there was a young couple sitting to the right from to her date. The guy was sitting beside her date with his back facing toward her, as he was engaged in a conversation with his date who appeared to be very pretty. As my subscriber’s date went to rack the pool balls the other guy (the one sitting next to them at the bar) turned around and their eyes met. It was the guy from the hot tub!
“Hey, hey,” he said.
“Oh, hi,” she said. They started laughing.
The guy had no choice but to introduce her and his date to each other. She said it felt funny, awkward and bizarre.
The moral of the story – if you are into playing the field don’t date in your own backyard unless you really don't care and are cool with that!
I am sure you have a lot to say, so please leave your comments here and take a wild guess as to why he didn't call and I will tell you the rest of the story shortly, so stay tuned!
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