3 Most Common Mistakes Women Make When Texting a Guy

March 19, 2011 by  
Filed under should i call him

Mistake # 1 – Returning a guy’s telephone call with a text message

The common rule of dating is returning a text message with a text message, but returning a phone call with a PHONE CALL.

Don’t make the mistake of texting a guy when returning his call. If he took the time to call you and to leave a message, it is rude to return his call with a text. It shows that he isn’t important to you, and it is bad manners. Don’t start a new relationship by showing the guy you are dating that you don’t respect him!

Mistake # 2 – Cancelling a date via text

If you have a date set up, and something comes up so you can’t make it, cancelling a date, especially on a short notice should be done via telephone. Cancelling via text may end the relationship right there. If you do this, it will make the other person feel unimportant, and no one wants to be with someone who has no respect for us, and little consideration.

Mistake # 3 – Having a text relationship

Once you get to know the guy better, you need to have a healthy balance between texting, telephone calls, and seeing each other in person. Too many people these days make the mistake of handling dating and even a relationship with someone mainly via text messaging. If you and the man you are dating see each other once a week, you should try to talk to each other in between dates and have normal telephone conversation. Relying solely on texting is not appropriate when building a relationship. You want to actually pick up the telephone and have a conversation, not just a one liner text message back and forth.

Texting is a great tool to build attraction. You can flirt through texting; you can make the other person more attracted to you through texting; but there comes a point in your relationship when you need to know the other person better, find out what they like, what their passions are, and what they are goals are.

There are many ways you can use texting to assist in building a good relationship. But you must have balance between talking and doing things together as well.

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