Text Your Ex Back and Text Your Ex Back Ebook by Michael Fiore

January 20, 2012 by  
Filed under Get My Boyfriend Back

Perhaps you recently came across the new program Text Your Ex Back by Michael Fiore and are wondering if Text Your Ex Back really works. Or maybe your ex stopped answering your phone calls and refuses to talk to you, and you want to know whether texting your ex instead of calling your ex boyfriend or ex girlfriend will make a difference. On this page I want to give you my opinion about texting your ex, review situations where you absolutely should avoid texting your ex under any circumstances, and make suggestions on what to text to your ex if you decide to give texting a shot.

We will review several real life situations and discuss in which situations texting your ex may be a good options, and in which situations texting your ex can even be harmful to your situation. We will also review the position of the author of the program Text Your Ex Back Michael Fiore who wrote the book program Text Your Ex Back and who has been featured on Rachael Ray Show when he first wrote his previous book on texting.

First of all, the rule of thumb in my opinion is texting your ex when all they want from you is to be gone isn’t a good idea to begin with.

Let’s begin with a situation in which you and your ex have just recently broken up.

You may be compelled to text your ex all day long, and if your ex isn’t responding to your texts, you may try even harder.

This type of behavior is commonly referred to as text messaging terrorism. Basically, you text your ex day and night, often without response, hoping to say something that will make your ex text you back.

This is a very harmful way to communicate with your ex. It will definitely make you look like a stalker, and will backfire very soon.

When your ex doesn’t want to sit down and talk to you about the break up, no amount of text messaging will make him or her change their mind.

Texting is just like calling; when they want you gone, the best thing you should do is stay gone.

This may sound counter-intuitive, and often counter-productive, but in reality you want to give your ex exactly what they want – some space.

But what if you broke up because you got into an argument or a fight because one of you or even both of you did something wrong? Perhaps one of you has cheated, and something needs to be done instantly to fix the break up. You may be wondering if you should text your ex and make amends. Should you or should you not send your ex yet another text message?

The answer is, it really depends on the situation, how much time has passed, and what really happened.

In my opinion, text messaging is best used in this situation to set up a time to meet in person. Amends aren’t made over text messaging, and you can certainly use your phone to send a text message to your ex to tell them that you would like to meet them to make amends. But wait!

Typically, people are very receptive to their ex making amends, and chances are, your ex will want to meet with you to hear your amends. However, you should keep in mind, that in order for this text message to work, your ex has to first calm down. If your ex is still angry over the break up or the cause of the break up, it is best to wait before you send them a text message asking them to meet with you.

Here is another thing you should remember when deciding whether to text your ex; The most important decisions in a relationship are never made via text messaging.

Things like breaking up, asking someone to marry you, asking them to date you exclusively, are just some of the things that should always be discussed in person. Not on the phone, not via e-mail, not via instant messaging, and certainly not via text.

Granted, some people even break up via text messaging, but in my opinion this is a very lame way to break up with someone. If you decide you want your relationship to end, at least have the guts to tell your ex honestly and in person, and do not hide behind text messages.

Moving forward, I wanted to discuss the new ebook Text Your Ex Back by Michael Fiore. I recently came across an interesting video in which Michael Fiore talks about how to get your ex back by using text messages you can send to your ex.

I was curious about this program as I had always thought that generally the rule of thumb is to leave your ex alone when you first break up.

When your ex wants their space, please do yourself a favor and stop stalking him! That’s the first step at getting your ex back.

So, when I saw Michael Fiore’s program I thought hmmm, how does Michael Fiore propose we get our ex’s back when texting your ex violates the no-contact rule?

By texting your ex constantly, even if it’s tiny little messages as Michael Fiore refers to them you are breaking the rule number one of getting your ex back.

This got my attention. As a dating and relationship coach I am always curious to check out new strategies that other dating coaches use for getting your ex back, and so I paid attention.

Michael Fiore says that he knows how to make your ex think of you and want you back when you send him certain type of text messages. I listened to the entire video but I didn’t hear any specific Text Your Ex Back examples.

However, I have found a video of Michael Fiore on Rachael Ray Show. Not exactly the entire recording from Rachael Ray, but some excerpts. And in that video Michael Fiore gave one example of a text message that could be sent to a girlfriend or a wife.

I thought it was a great example, and one that could definitely work to get a woman crave her man more. Unfortunately, that example in my opinion could not be used to get your ex back. That specific example was from Michael Fiore’s previous program, and I didn’t think it was applicable to his Text Your Ex Back book, so I kept looking.

Finally, what I realized was that no other specific examples were available on the Internet, and you would have to buy Text Your Ex Back to find out what those texts actually are, and whether they work.

Michael Fiore says that he has received hundreds of e-mails from customers who say those text messages work, and since the price of the program is comparable with what you would pay if you buy any other product that teaches you how to get your ex back, you might as well try this one.

Although the downside is that Text Your Ex Back is a relatively new program, I don’t think it is possible to tell with accuracy how well these strategies work.

So far we have not heard any negative feedback, and if you have your heart set on getting your ex back, why not try texting him back into your life?

Texting has been the preferred method of communication for many in the past few years, and the good thing about texting your ex is that you won’t have to be rejected in your face, and getting rejection through text messaging is easier. On the other hand, when you aren’t speaking with your ex in person, your ex doesn’t even have to reject you if he doesn’t want to; he might just not respond.

I believe (and I am not sure how accurate this is) that Michael Fiore has come up with some examples and ideas of how text messaging could be used to make your ex think of you in a positive light, instead of the negative light.

But I personally believe that when you text your ex, you should always use caution. Examples of when you should text your ex in my opinion would be

- When you and your ex are on good terms

- When your break up happened a long time ago and you are now friends with your ex (but not immediately after the break up)

- When you and your ex decide to reconcile and have already discussed the potential of getting back together

Examples of when you should not text your ex would be:

-When you first broke up with your ex

-When your ex is still angry at you

-When you are angry at your ex (because texting your ex at the time of anger and other negative emotions could be very damaging to your already volatile situation)

-When you are not ready to talk to your ex putting your emotions aside

-When your ex is dating someone else (because at this time your ex will want to hear from you the least)

-When you have already texted or called your ex multiple times

-When you feel compelled to beg your ex to give you another chance

-When you want to bribe your ex into seeing you by offering to do things for them or by giving your ex presents

-When your ex left you for someone else

So, what should you do when your situation is one of the above?

If your situation is one of the described above and you want to text your ex, I recommend that you avoid not just texting your ex but cut all communication. Don’t worry, your ex will want to initiate contact with you at some point when you do all the right things.

The first step at getting your ex back is, like I said before, to give him some space. If you have been calling them, dropping by their place unannounced, texting them repeatedly, etc. you should stop any and all attempts to contact your ex. Yes, this includes not texting your ex at all.

But what if your ex texts you first? Should you respond to their text message?

It all depends on what their text message says.

For instance, if this text message is not romantic, for instance, your ex wants you to come pick up your stuff, then you should definitely text them back to arrange for a pickup of your stuff. Not responding to their text messages concerned logistics and other things that do not include romantic suggestions is not only polite and civil, it will help you avoid unnecessary headache when it comes to arranging for moving your stuff, custody of your children you might have together, and other important decisions.

There are ways to make your ex text you first, or even call you first. There are also specific things you can text to your ex to make him want to engage in a texting conversation with you. But texting your ex when your break up is still fresh isn’t the best idea in my opinion.

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