Comments for Why Doesn't He Call? » Why Doesn't He Call|Should You Call Him|Should Women Call Men|Why Did He Stop Calling|When He Doesn't Call|Make Him Call Me http://why-he-doesnt-call.com/blog Why Men Stop Calling And What To Do About It Wed, 18 Apr 2012 03:35:32 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 Comment on My Boyfriend Doesn't Call Me For Days – What Does It Mean? by Sarah http://why-he-doesnt-call.com/blog/2009/07/12/my-boyfriend-doesnt-call-me-for-days-%e2%80%93-what-does-it-mean/comment-page-2/#comment-2919 Sarah Wed, 18 Apr 2012 03:35:32 +0000 http://why-he-doesnt-call.com/blog/?p=185#comment-2919 Check his email! You never know when a guy is cheating! Check his email! You never know when a guy is cheating!

]]> Comment on My Boyfriend Doesn't Call Me For Days – What Does It Mean? by Sarah http://why-he-doesnt-call.com/blog/2009/07/12/my-boyfriend-doesnt-call-me-for-days-%e2%80%93-what-does-it-mean/comment-page-2/#comment-2918 Sarah Wed, 18 Apr 2012 03:30:45 +0000 http://why-he-doesnt-call.com/blog/?p=185#comment-2918 He's probably busy. You should tell him that you should just be friends and that you need someone that gives you more attention and care. He's probably busy. You should tell him that you should just be friends and that you need someone that gives you more attention and care.

]]> Comment on What Happens When You Don't Call Him by clara http://why-he-doesnt-call.com/blog/2012/03/30/what-happens-when-you-do-not-call-him/comment-page-1/#comment-2917 clara Sat, 31 Mar 2012 07:05:27 +0000 http://why-he-doesnt-call.com/blog/?p=534#comment-2917 Must you always answer his calls Must you always answer his calls

]]> Comment on What Happens When You Don't Call Him by padmini nia tillu http://why-he-doesnt-call.com/blog/2012/03/30/what-happens-when-you-do-not-call-him/comment-page-1/#comment-2916 padmini nia tillu Fri, 30 Mar 2012 14:46:37 +0000 http://why-he-doesnt-call.com/blog/?p=534#comment-2916 What I say and do makes him angry and he thinks I am the one that is angry so nothing goes between What I say and do makes him angry and he thinks I am the one that is angry so nothing goes between

]]> Comment on Should You Text Your Ex by padmini nia tillu http://why-he-doesnt-call.com/blog/2012/01/30/should-you-text-your-ex/comment-page-1/#comment-2905 padmini nia tillu Mon, 30 Jan 2012 12:49:13 +0000 http://why-he-doesnt-call.com/blog/?p=529#comment-2905 I do not know why but I thought if he is mine he listens to what I say but he obviously does not want to show that so he listens to what I say to others. That is right. I do not know why but I thought if he is mine he listens to what I say but he obviously does not want to show that so he listens to what I say to others. That is right.

]]> Comment on He Wants Me To Text Him My Picture by Karen16 http://why-he-doesnt-call.com/blog/2010/07/02/he-wants-me-to-text-him-my-picture/comment-page-1/#comment-2904 Karen16 Sun, 15 Jan 2012 16:12:48 +0000 http://why-he-doesnt-call.com/blog/?p=439#comment-2904 hi, i just posted to whats on my mind? why do you want your cheating husband back? my ex cheated too and i want him back but with no cheating and it will happen. he said can he promise manogomy no, but will he try yes. i replied. i guess that will be up to me. and it will. sounds to me like if he wants you to be consistant with his calls then its because he doesnt want you interupting anything else. you say you think his interest is elsewhere. a friend once told me if you smell a schonk, there probably is one. she was right. However in my marriage, he cheated because i shut down emotionally due to other things go on. our supposedly best man told him is was p***y control. I would try and try to talk to him about it but he wouldn't listen. still beleived the ex best man until one day during our divorce. the best man says, hey, it was a joke. my ex says. i beleived you. we had a business together so our issues were control of that and the toxic people interfering. those issues are gone. i no longer want any control but of my own self. i will not marry him again or intermingle my finances with his. i will help him by doing the things for the company i used to do which i don't mind because he did a lot for me, only we failed to acknowledge each other. me more than him. i took him for granted physically and he took me for granted financially. a lot of my separate money went into the business which he got. in 16 years, he only complained about my cooking or lack of when i didn't want to; one time. he always vaccumed and mopped the floors. took care of home repairs right away. he took care of me when i was sick. it takes two and i have learned alot from our divorce. to be a better person, to love me first, no matter what. to forgive. i stopped the blame game and started giving a lot more affirmation. maybe you are being too emotional. i want to tell my ex all the time i love him but i don't. he doesn't tell me in words but in actions, which speak louder. i can tell he is actually listening to me. i told him we never had sex on our wedding night or anniversary. recently it would have been 15 years of marriage. he text me early in the day and wanted to come spend the night. i was floored. i know is is paying attention and i am him too. we haven't decided to be full time yet. i just go with the flow. men can't deal with our emotional outbreaks. i don't know how old you are but i can tell you from my experience that they cant and it will only push them further away. praise him when he deserves it. ignore him when he deserves it. don't put up with any b/s. you know when he is cheating or you are in denial when its happening. i make my own happyness. sure my ex knows i want him here but only if he wants it and im not pushing. i don't want him to be where he doesn't want to be. i date other guys but no sex. if you want him back and want him to really love you. then love yourself first. you only have you and nobody else. like i said, i don't know your age and my husband did cheat but i don't want that cheating husband back. i want my ex back but not the cheating one. we both are trying but not too fast. i have had more quality time without fighting in the last 5 months than the last five years of our marriage. i'm 54, he is 55. and to go from lust to love and then now from love to lust its awesome. if you want him to change, change your own behavior first. the fact that we are having real conversations without fighting is a blessing in itself. ours was a fight one day and he filed for divorce the next. neither of us wanted it but once initated couldn't be undone. he would have lost face with me and peers. we both are better people now. we have been divorced/separated.3 1/2 years but we are still in love with each other. i have no doubts and neither does he. sounds like your behavior that was part of the divorce, i did what you are doing. you haven't changed so he isn't going to either. you want to bring his love to you. not push it away which is what i see you are doing just from your short comment. please forgive me. i tend to write too much. but i only know this from a hard lesson learned. he was the only man i married and meant for better or for worse. when i acknoweldged my part. gave him affirmation for his good. he starte to open up and now is acknowedgeing his bad part which is another shock. men rarely admit fault. when he did. i said, thanks for sharing that with me. he replied, if i had known you were going to say that, i would have wrote more. words are just words until you put them with other words and they need to be mostly inperson. be patient with him on opening him up if you really want him back. a lot of people think they want their ex and when they get them they don't because nothing has changed. my ex doesn't want me to say i love you. i said ok, but even if i say it and i really mean it with all my heart. i can still walk away. can he? so that is our standstill. i know i can. i deserve a better life and i won't settle for less than what i deserve. no cheating husband. hi, i just posted to whats on my mind? why do you want your cheating husband back? my ex cheated too and i want him back but with no cheating and it will happen. he said can he promise manogomy no, but will he try yes. i replied. i guess that will be up to me. and it will. sounds to me like if he wants you to be consistant with his calls then its because he doesnt want you interupting anything else. you say you think his interest is elsewhere. a friend once told me if you smell a schonk, there probably is one. she was right. However in my marriage, he cheated because i shut down emotionally due to other things go on. our supposedly best man told him is was p***y control. I would try and try to talk to him about it but he wouldn't listen. still beleived the ex best man until one day during our divorce. the best man says, hey, it was a joke. my ex says. i beleived you.

we had a business together so our issues were control of that and the toxic people interfering. those issues are gone. i no longer want any control but of my own self. i will not marry him again or intermingle my finances with his. i will help him by doing the things for the company i used to do which i don't mind because he did a lot for me, only we failed to acknowledge each other. me more than him. i took him for granted physically and he took me for granted financially. a lot of my separate money went into the business which he got. in 16 years, he only complained about my cooking or lack of when i didn't want to; one time. he always vaccumed and mopped the floors. took care of home repairs right away. he took care of me when i was sick. it takes two and i have learned alot from our divorce. to be a better person, to love me first, no matter what. to forgive. i stopped the blame game and started giving a lot more affirmation. maybe you are being too emotional. i want to tell my ex all the time i love him but i don't. he doesn't tell me in words but in actions, which speak louder. i can tell he is actually listening to me. i told him we never had sex on our wedding night or anniversary. recently it would have been 15 years of marriage. he text me early in the day and wanted to come spend the night. i was floored. i know is is paying attention and i am him too. we haven't decided to be full time yet. i just go with the flow.

men can't deal with our emotional outbreaks. i don't know how old you are but i can tell you from my experience that they cant and it will only push them further away. praise him when he deserves it. ignore him when he deserves it. don't put up with any b/s. you know when he is cheating or you are in denial when its happening. i make my own happyness. sure my ex knows i want him here but only if he wants it and im not pushing. i don't want him to be where he doesn't want to be. i date other guys but no sex. if you want him back and want him to really love you. then love yourself first. you only have you and nobody else. like i said, i don't know your age and my husband did cheat but i don't want that cheating husband back. i want my ex back but not the cheating one. we both are trying but not too fast. i have had more quality time without fighting in the last 5 months than the last five years of our marriage.

i'm 54, he is 55. and to go from lust to love and then now from love to lust its awesome. if you want him to change, change your own behavior first. the fact that we are having real conversations without fighting is a blessing in itself. ours was a fight one day and he filed for divorce the next. neither of us wanted it but once initated couldn't be undone. he would have lost face with me and peers. we both are better people now. we have been divorced/separated.3 1/2 years but we are still in love with each other. i have no doubts and neither does he. sounds like your behavior that was part of the divorce, i did what you are doing. you haven't changed so he isn't going to either. you want to bring his love to you. not push it away which is what i see you are doing just from your short comment. please forgive me. i tend to write too much. but i only know this from a hard lesson learned. he was the only man i married and meant for better or for worse. when i acknoweldged my part. gave him affirmation for his good. he starte to open up and now is acknowedgeing his bad part which is another shock. men rarely admit fault. when he did. i said, thanks for sharing that with me. he replied, if i had known you were going to say that, i would have wrote more. words are just words until you put them with other words and they need to be mostly inperson. be patient with him on opening him up if you really want him back. a lot of people think they want their ex and when they get them they don't because nothing has changed. my ex doesn't want me to say i love you. i said ok, but even if i say it and i really mean it with all my heart. i can still walk away. can he? so that is our standstill. i know i can. i deserve a better life and i won't settle for less than what i deserve. no cheating husband.

]]> Comment on He Wants Me To Text Him My Picture by Karen16 http://why-he-doesnt-call.com/blog/2010/07/02/he-wants-me-to-text-him-my-picture/comment-page-1/#comment-2903 Karen16 Sun, 15 Jan 2012 15:31:36 +0000 http://why-he-doesnt-call.com/blog/?p=439#comment-2903 This is why i don't like online dating. it seems all men are interested in is setting up a booty call. you meet the first time, then if you act like your not going to give it up anytime soon, they don't call back. if you do, they don't call back either. i also find that men lie more about their ages than women do. I;m 54 and look great inspite of some pre aging issues but all the men that say they are my age or close look much older. do they think we are stupid? i have men friends my age and they don't look as old as the ones online. real friends, not the sexual kind but yea, it crosses their mind but i tell them straight up where i stand. if you don't like it, then i don't care if your my friend. actually, the possiblility of getting with my ex looks better all the time. inspite of our troubles. i know him. i don't want to spend years with someone and find out its not going to work and then here i am again. im at the point where i don't care. im happy living alone. i have a few booty calls with him. he knows i date but i don't cheat so he is cool with that. i asked him to respect me in that way as well. he does.at least with him, i know where its been. we are kind of like friends with benefits. maybe this is the best way. and if i'm going to give it up, i get something in return, like work on my house. stuff like that. he looks just as good to me as when i met him 16 years ago. if a guy is going to lie about their age online what else will they lie about? i want an honest guy. i'm too old for games. i don't work outside my home. i'm retired but i stay more busy than when i did work. i'm probably happier than in years but i do want male companionship on a more permant basis. with my ex? not sure but i think i would do better at flirting with a guy in an elevator or at the store than online. do other women have this problem? guys expect us to be almost model material but they don't put much into their appearance. I just don't get it. is it worth the trouble? This is why i don't like online dating. it seems all men are interested in is setting up a booty call. you meet the first time, then if you act like your not going to give it up anytime soon, they don't call back. if you do, they don't call back either. i also find that men lie more about their ages than women do. I;m 54 and look great inspite of some pre aging issues but all the men that say they are my age or close look much older. do they think we are stupid? i have men friends my age and they don't look as old as the ones online. real friends, not the sexual kind but yea, it crosses their mind but i tell them straight up where i stand. if you don't like it, then i don't care if your my friend. actually, the possiblility of getting with my ex looks better all the time. inspite of our troubles. i know him. i don't want to spend years with someone and find out its not going to work and then here i am again. im at the point where i don't care. im happy living alone. i have a few booty calls with him. he knows i date but i don't cheat so he is cool with that. i asked him to respect me in that way as well. he does.at least with him, i know where its been. we are kind of like friends with benefits. maybe this is the best way. and if i'm going to give it up, i get something in return, like work on my house. stuff like that. he looks just as good to me as when i met him 16 years ago. if a guy is going to lie about their age online what else will they lie about? i want an honest guy. i'm too old for games. i don't work outside my home. i'm retired but i stay more busy than when i did work. i'm probably happier than in years but i do want male companionship on a more permant basis. with my ex? not sure but i think i would do better at flirting with a guy in an elevator or at the store than online. do other women have this problem? guys expect us to be almost model material but they don't put much into their appearance. I just don't get it. is it worth the trouble?

]]> Comment on Have You Called Him and He Didn't Call You Back? Don't End Up Like This by SARAH http://why-he-doesnt-call.com/blog/2010/06/27/have-you-called-him-and-he-didnt-call-you-back-dont-end-up-like-this/comment-page-1/#comment-2902 SARAH Sat, 31 Dec 2011 05:58:17 +0000 http://why-he-doesnt-call.com/blog/?p=428#comment-2902 Hi Niks, I definately know how you feel, or hopefully felt. I am 8 weeks from giving birth to my son with my ex fiance'. He stopped calling me after an arguement we had about his family, I have not heard a word out of him since. We have to pray and lean on the Lord to get us through these situations..he's the only one we can love that will never break our hearts..never trust solely in a man.. I hope anyone in this situation finds peace, strength and joy in the Lord, the one that loves us unconditionally. Love and Blessings, Sarah Hi Niks,
I definately know how you feel, or hopefully felt. I am 8 weeks from giving birth to my son with my ex fiance'. He stopped calling me after an arguement we had about his family, I have not heard a word out of him since.

We have to pray and lean on the Lord to get us through these situations..he's the only one we can love that will never break our hearts..never trust solely in a man..

I hope anyone in this situation finds peace, strength and joy in the Lord, the one that loves us unconditionally.

Love and Blessings,
Sarah

]]> Comment on Boyfriend Says He Is Not Ready For a Relationship by A girl http://why-he-doesnt-call.com/blog/2009/03/20/boyfriend-says-he-is-not-ready-for-a-relationship/comment-page-1/#comment-2901 A girl Thu, 29 Dec 2011 04:36:34 +0000 http://why-he-doesnt-call.com/blog/?p=61#comment-2901 Ouchhhhh hahahaha Ouchhhhh hahahaha

]]> Comment on Does He Love Me If He Doesn't Call? How To Tell If He Is In Love With You by padmini nia tillu http://why-he-doesnt-call.com/blog/2010/01/15/does-he-love-me-if-he-doesnt-call-how-to-tell-if-he-is-in-love-with-you/comment-page-1/#comment-2900 padmini nia tillu Wed, 28 Dec 2011 11:40:12 +0000 http://why-he-doesnt-call.com/blog/?p=359#comment-2900 Misery to the gods An apt title for this step would be pre order your diamond and cut your heart up Did not know there were steps to a relationship What is the next step Misery to the gods
An apt title for this step would be pre order your diamond and cut your heart up
Did not know there were steps to a relationship
What is the next step

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