Comments for Why Doesn't He Call? » Why Doesn't He Call|Should You Call Him|Should Women Call Men|Why Did He Stop Calling|When He Doesn't Call|Make Him Call Me http://why-he-doesnt-call.com/blog Why Men Stop Calling And What To Do About It Mon, 30 Jan 2012 12:49:13 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 Comment on Should You Text Your Ex by padmini nia tillu http://why-he-doesnt-call.com/blog/2012/01/30/should-you-text-your-ex/comment-page-1/#comment-2905 padmini nia tillu Mon, 30 Jan 2012 12:49:13 +0000 http://why-he-doesnt-call.com/blog/?p=529#comment-2905 I do not know why but I thought if he is mine he listens to what I say but he obviously does not want to show that so he listens to what I say to others. That is right. I do not know why but I thought if he is mine he listens to what I say but he obviously does not want to show that so he listens to what I say to others. That is right.

]]> Comment on He Wants Me To Text Him My Picture by Karen16 http://why-he-doesnt-call.com/blog/2010/07/02/he-wants-me-to-text-him-my-picture/comment-page-1/#comment-2904 Karen16 Sun, 15 Jan 2012 16:12:48 +0000 http://why-he-doesnt-call.com/blog/?p=439#comment-2904 hi, i just posted to whats on my mind? why do you want your cheating husband back? my ex cheated too and i want him back but with no cheating and it will happen. he said can he promise manogomy no, but will he try yes. i replied. i guess that will be up to me. and it will. sounds to me like if he wants you to be consistant with his calls then its because he doesnt want you interupting anything else. you say you think his interest is elsewhere. a friend once told me if you smell a schonk, there probably is one. she was right. However in my marriage, he cheated because i shut down emotionally due to other things go on. our supposedly best man told him is was p***y control. I would try and try to talk to him about it but he wouldn't listen. still beleived the ex best man until one day during our divorce. the best man says, hey, it was a joke. my ex says. i beleived you. we had a business together so our issues were control of that and the toxic people interfering. those issues are gone. i no longer want any control but of my own self. i will not marry him again or intermingle my finances with his. i will help him by doing the things for the company i used to do which i don't mind because he did a lot for me, only we failed to acknowledge each other. me more than him. i took him for granted physically and he took me for granted financially. a lot of my separate money went into the business which he got. in 16 years, he only complained about my cooking or lack of when i didn't want to; one time. he always vaccumed and mopped the floors. took care of home repairs right away. he took care of me when i was sick. it takes two and i have learned alot from our divorce. to be a better person, to love me first, no matter what. to forgive. i stopped the blame game and started giving a lot more affirmation. maybe you are being too emotional. i want to tell my ex all the time i love him but i don't. he doesn't tell me in words but in actions, which speak louder. i can tell he is actually listening to me. i told him we never had sex on our wedding night or anniversary. recently it would have been 15 years of marriage. he text me early in the day and wanted to come spend the night. i was floored. i know is is paying attention and i am him too. we haven't decided to be full time yet. i just go with the flow. men can't deal with our emotional outbreaks. i don't know how old you are but i can tell you from my experience that they cant and it will only push them further away. praise him when he deserves it. ignore him when he deserves it. don't put up with any b/s. you know when he is cheating or you are in denial when its happening. i make my own happyness. sure my ex knows i want him here but only if he wants it and im not pushing. i don't want him to be where he doesn't want to be. i date other guys but no sex. if you want him back and want him to really love you. then love yourself first. you only have you and nobody else. like i said, i don't know your age and my husband did cheat but i don't want that cheating husband back. i want my ex back but not the cheating one. we both are trying but not too fast. i have had more quality time without fighting in the last 5 months than the last five years of our marriage. i'm 54, he is 55. and to go from lust to love and then now from love to lust its awesome. if you want him to change, change your own behavior first. the fact that we are having real conversations without fighting is a blessing in itself. ours was a fight one day and he filed for divorce the next. neither of us wanted it but once initated couldn't be undone. he would have lost face with me and peers. we both are better people now. we have been divorced/separated.3 1/2 years but we are still in love with each other. i have no doubts and neither does he. sounds like your behavior that was part of the divorce, i did what you are doing. you haven't changed so he isn't going to either. you want to bring his love to you. not push it away which is what i see you are doing just from your short comment. please forgive me. i tend to write too much. but i only know this from a hard lesson learned. he was the only man i married and meant for better or for worse. when i acknoweldged my part. gave him affirmation for his good. he starte to open up and now is acknowedgeing his bad part which is another shock. men rarely admit fault. when he did. i said, thanks for sharing that with me. he replied, if i had known you were going to say that, i would have wrote more. words are just words until you put them with other words and they need to be mostly inperson. be patient with him on opening him up if you really want him back. a lot of people think they want their ex and when they get them they don't because nothing has changed. my ex doesn't want me to say i love you. i said ok, but even if i say it and i really mean it with all my heart. i can still walk away. can he? so that is our standstill. i know i can. i deserve a better life and i won't settle for less than what i deserve. no cheating husband. hi, i just posted to whats on my mind? why do you want your cheating husband back? my ex cheated too and i want him back but with no cheating and it will happen. he said can he promise manogomy no, but will he try yes. i replied. i guess that will be up to me. and it will. sounds to me like if he wants you to be consistant with his calls then its because he doesnt want you interupting anything else. you say you think his interest is elsewhere. a friend once told me if you smell a schonk, there probably is one. she was right. However in my marriage, he cheated because i shut down emotionally due to other things go on. our supposedly best man told him is was p***y control. I would try and try to talk to him about it but he wouldn't listen. still beleived the ex best man until one day during our divorce. the best man says, hey, it was a joke. my ex says. i beleived you.

we had a business together so our issues were control of that and the toxic people interfering. those issues are gone. i no longer want any control but of my own self. i will not marry him again or intermingle my finances with his. i will help him by doing the things for the company i used to do which i don't mind because he did a lot for me, only we failed to acknowledge each other. me more than him. i took him for granted physically and he took me for granted financially. a lot of my separate money went into the business which he got. in 16 years, he only complained about my cooking or lack of when i didn't want to; one time. he always vaccumed and mopped the floors. took care of home repairs right away. he took care of me when i was sick. it takes two and i have learned alot from our divorce. to be a better person, to love me first, no matter what. to forgive. i stopped the blame game and started giving a lot more affirmation. maybe you are being too emotional. i want to tell my ex all the time i love him but i don't. he doesn't tell me in words but in actions, which speak louder. i can tell he is actually listening to me. i told him we never had sex on our wedding night or anniversary. recently it would have been 15 years of marriage. he text me early in the day and wanted to come spend the night. i was floored. i know is is paying attention and i am him too. we haven't decided to be full time yet. i just go with the flow.

men can't deal with our emotional outbreaks. i don't know how old you are but i can tell you from my experience that they cant and it will only push them further away. praise him when he deserves it. ignore him when he deserves it. don't put up with any b/s. you know when he is cheating or you are in denial when its happening. i make my own happyness. sure my ex knows i want him here but only if he wants it and im not pushing. i don't want him to be where he doesn't want to be. i date other guys but no sex. if you want him back and want him to really love you. then love yourself first. you only have you and nobody else. like i said, i don't know your age and my husband did cheat but i don't want that cheating husband back. i want my ex back but not the cheating one. we both are trying but not too fast. i have had more quality time without fighting in the last 5 months than the last five years of our marriage.

i'm 54, he is 55. and to go from lust to love and then now from love to lust its awesome. if you want him to change, change your own behavior first. the fact that we are having real conversations without fighting is a blessing in itself. ours was a fight one day and he filed for divorce the next. neither of us wanted it but once initated couldn't be undone. he would have lost face with me and peers. we both are better people now. we have been divorced/separated.3 1/2 years but we are still in love with each other. i have no doubts and neither does he. sounds like your behavior that was part of the divorce, i did what you are doing. you haven't changed so he isn't going to either. you want to bring his love to you. not push it away which is what i see you are doing just from your short comment. please forgive me. i tend to write too much. but i only know this from a hard lesson learned. he was the only man i married and meant for better or for worse. when i acknoweldged my part. gave him affirmation for his good. he starte to open up and now is acknowedgeing his bad part which is another shock. men rarely admit fault. when he did. i said, thanks for sharing that with me. he replied, if i had known you were going to say that, i would have wrote more. words are just words until you put them with other words and they need to be mostly inperson. be patient with him on opening him up if you really want him back. a lot of people think they want their ex and when they get them they don't because nothing has changed. my ex doesn't want me to say i love you. i said ok, but even if i say it and i really mean it with all my heart. i can still walk away. can he? so that is our standstill. i know i can. i deserve a better life and i won't settle for less than what i deserve. no cheating husband.

]]> Comment on He Wants Me To Text Him My Picture by Karen16 http://why-he-doesnt-call.com/blog/2010/07/02/he-wants-me-to-text-him-my-picture/comment-page-1/#comment-2903 Karen16 Sun, 15 Jan 2012 15:31:36 +0000 http://why-he-doesnt-call.com/blog/?p=439#comment-2903 This is why i don't like online dating. it seems all men are interested in is setting up a booty call. you meet the first time, then if you act like your not going to give it up anytime soon, they don't call back. if you do, they don't call back either. i also find that men lie more about their ages than women do. I;m 54 and look great inspite of some pre aging issues but all the men that say they are my age or close look much older. do they think we are stupid? i have men friends my age and they don't look as old as the ones online. real friends, not the sexual kind but yea, it crosses their mind but i tell them straight up where i stand. if you don't like it, then i don't care if your my friend. actually, the possiblility of getting with my ex looks better all the time. inspite of our troubles. i know him. i don't want to spend years with someone and find out its not going to work and then here i am again. im at the point where i don't care. im happy living alone. i have a few booty calls with him. he knows i date but i don't cheat so he is cool with that. i asked him to respect me in that way as well. he does.at least with him, i know where its been. we are kind of like friends with benefits. maybe this is the best way. and if i'm going to give it up, i get something in return, like work on my house. stuff like that. he looks just as good to me as when i met him 16 years ago. if a guy is going to lie about their age online what else will they lie about? i want an honest guy. i'm too old for games. i don't work outside my home. i'm retired but i stay more busy than when i did work. i'm probably happier than in years but i do want male companionship on a more permant basis. with my ex? not sure but i think i would do better at flirting with a guy in an elevator or at the store than online. do other women have this problem? guys expect us to be almost model material but they don't put much into their appearance. I just don't get it. is it worth the trouble? This is why i don't like online dating. it seems all men are interested in is setting up a booty call. you meet the first time, then if you act like your not going to give it up anytime soon, they don't call back. if you do, they don't call back either. i also find that men lie more about their ages than women do. I;m 54 and look great inspite of some pre aging issues but all the men that say they are my age or close look much older. do they think we are stupid? i have men friends my age and they don't look as old as the ones online. real friends, not the sexual kind but yea, it crosses their mind but i tell them straight up where i stand. if you don't like it, then i don't care if your my friend. actually, the possiblility of getting with my ex looks better all the time. inspite of our troubles. i know him. i don't want to spend years with someone and find out its not going to work and then here i am again. im at the point where i don't care. im happy living alone. i have a few booty calls with him. he knows i date but i don't cheat so he is cool with that. i asked him to respect me in that way as well. he does.at least with him, i know where its been. we are kind of like friends with benefits. maybe this is the best way. and if i'm going to give it up, i get something in return, like work on my house. stuff like that. he looks just as good to me as when i met him 16 years ago. if a guy is going to lie about their age online what else will they lie about? i want an honest guy. i'm too old for games. i don't work outside my home. i'm retired but i stay more busy than when i did work. i'm probably happier than in years but i do want male companionship on a more permant basis. with my ex? not sure but i think i would do better at flirting with a guy in an elevator or at the store than online. do other women have this problem? guys expect us to be almost model material but they don't put much into their appearance. I just don't get it. is it worth the trouble?

]]> Comment on Have You Called Him and He Didn't Call You Back? Don't End Up Like This by SARAH http://why-he-doesnt-call.com/blog/2010/06/27/have-you-called-him-and-he-didnt-call-you-back-dont-end-up-like-this/comment-page-1/#comment-2902 SARAH Sat, 31 Dec 2011 05:58:17 +0000 http://why-he-doesnt-call.com/blog/?p=428#comment-2902 Hi Niks, I definately know how you feel, or hopefully felt. I am 8 weeks from giving birth to my son with my ex fiance'. He stopped calling me after an arguement we had about his family, I have not heard a word out of him since. We have to pray and lean on the Lord to get us through these situations..he's the only one we can love that will never break our hearts..never trust solely in a man.. I hope anyone in this situation finds peace, strength and joy in the Lord, the one that loves us unconditionally. Love and Blessings, Sarah Hi Niks,
I definately know how you feel, or hopefully felt. I am 8 weeks from giving birth to my son with my ex fiance'. He stopped calling me after an arguement we had about his family, I have not heard a word out of him since.

We have to pray and lean on the Lord to get us through these situations..he's the only one we can love that will never break our hearts..never trust solely in a man..

I hope anyone in this situation finds peace, strength and joy in the Lord, the one that loves us unconditionally.

Love and Blessings,
Sarah

]]> Comment on Boyfriend Says He Is Not Ready For a Relationship by A girl http://why-he-doesnt-call.com/blog/2009/03/20/boyfriend-says-he-is-not-ready-for-a-relationship/comment-page-1/#comment-2901 A girl Thu, 29 Dec 2011 04:36:34 +0000 http://why-he-doesnt-call.com/blog/?p=61#comment-2901 Ouchhhhh hahahaha Ouchhhhh hahahaha

]]> Comment on Does He Love Me If He Doesn't Call? How To Tell If He Is In Love With You by padmini nia tillu http://why-he-doesnt-call.com/blog/2010/01/15/does-he-love-me-if-he-doesnt-call-how-to-tell-if-he-is-in-love-with-you/comment-page-1/#comment-2900 padmini nia tillu Wed, 28 Dec 2011 11:40:12 +0000 http://why-he-doesnt-call.com/blog/?p=359#comment-2900 Misery to the gods An apt title for this step would be pre order your diamond and cut your heart up Did not know there were steps to a relationship What is the next step Misery to the gods
An apt title for this step would be pre order your diamond and cut your heart up
Did not know there were steps to a relationship
What is the next step

]]> Comment on Should I Call Him After a Break Up? Should I Call Him Or Not? by Leisa Gesell http://why-he-doesnt-call.com/blog/2009/05/24/should-i-call-him-after-a-break-up-should-i-call-him-or-not/comment-page-1/#comment-2897 Leisa Gesell Fri, 04 Nov 2011 09:24:59 +0000 http://why-he-doesnt-call.com/blog/?p=124#comment-2897 What can I say? writer and the article are great. I really like good info. What can I say? writer and the article are great. I really like good info.

]]> Comment on What Does It Mean When Your Boyfriend Ignores You by Tiffany http://why-he-doesnt-call.com/blog/2010/01/21/what-does-it-mean-when-your-boyfriend-ignores-you/comment-page-1/#comment-2896 Tiffany Tue, 25 Oct 2011 02:56:37 +0000 http://why-he-doesnt-call.com/blog/?p=369#comment-2896 Well,i got out of a relationship in july and i recently started to date this new guy the middle of september,he called all the time and had no excuses to see me and hang out,he always lets me know how much he loved being around me and how im so positive and he likes me sooo much,he even got close to saying the LOVE words but said he wanted to know for sure and be positive before he used such words.recently ive noticed distance he calls maybe once or twice a week,i see him maybe once a week. so i brought it up to him that this isnt the relationship that im used to because im used to being around my bf alot and if not around then atleast talking on the phone once a day is all i really ask but he still falls short,im actually thinking about breaking it off,should i or no? Well,i got out of a relationship in july and i recently started to date this new guy the middle of september,he called all the time and had no excuses to see me and hang out,he always lets me know how much he loved being around me and how im so positive and he likes me sooo much,he even got close to saying the LOVE words but said he wanted to know for sure and be positive before he used such words.recently ive noticed distance he calls maybe once or twice a week,i see him maybe once a week. so i brought it up to him that this isnt the relationship that im used to because im used to being around my bf alot and if not around then atleast talking on the phone once a day is all i really ask but he still falls short,im actually thinking about breaking it off,should i or no?

]]> Comment on Why Men Pull Away And When Men Pull Away by Bri http://why-he-doesnt-call.com/blog/2010/01/14/why-men-pull-away-and-when-men-pull-away/comment-page-1/#comment-2892 Bri Sun, 25 Sep 2011 19:47:45 +0000 http://why-he-doesnt-call.com/blog/?p=354#comment-2892 My guy friend and I talk all the time but for the last two days he hasn't been talking to me. We both like each other as more than friends. We are apartof a site called Funchat. I went on yesterday to get my mind off of him and sure enough he was on there talking to all these girls... Calling the pretty things and saying that they areso finehe could just eat them up! I was so upset but when I talkedto him about it he said "lmao well did you see them?! They were fine! Not to be rude". I am not sure how to interpret that. He told me he was a flirt but he seems to not even care for my feelings... I need help lol please send answers to that. Thank you [: My guy friend and I talk all the time but for the last two days he hasn't been talking to me. We both like each other as more than friends. We are apartof a site called Funchat. I went on yesterday to get my mind off of him and sure enough he was on there talking to all these girls... Calling the pretty things and saying that they areso finehe could just eat them up! I was so upset but when I talkedto him about it he said "lmao well did you see them?! They were fine! Not to be rude". I am not sure how to interpret that. He told me he was a flirt but he seems to not even care for my feelings... I need help lol please send answers to that. Thank you [:

]]> Comment on He Calls But Disappears Every Time by mary http://why-he-doesnt-call.com/blog/2010/07/18/he-calls-but-disappears-every-time/comment-page-1/#comment-2890 mary Sat, 13 Aug 2011 22:01:13 +0000 http://why-he-doesnt-call.com/blog/?p=491#comment-2890 hi everyone, I got aquanted with this guy in my workplace bt we did’nt have any date together during those time. i quitted my job after 1 month & this causes us to not seeing each other anymore bt we were in touch by phone. our conversation was jst limited about working matters bt we both had a kind of feeling about each other.he wanted me to see each other bt he didnt call me to determine the exact date hour. he did it 2 times & this trigger me to doubt about his feeling. After 1 year later he called me again & wanted me to have a date.finally we could meet each other. we had some conversation on phone after that dating bt he didnt answer my phone in two last times i called him. then i send him a message to finish everything. the only thing he did was sending an email that”i wish u allowded me to talk to each other”. now i dont know what to do. what do u think? is he realy interested in me? what’s his purpose? should i talk to him seriously about ourselves? hi everyone,
I got aquanted with this guy in my workplace bt we did’nt have any date together during those time. i quitted my job after 1 month & this causes us to not seeing each other anymore bt we were in touch by phone. our conversation was jst limited about working matters bt we both had a kind of feeling about each other.he wanted me to see each other bt he didnt call me to determine the exact date hour. he did it 2 times & this trigger me to doubt about his feeling. After 1 year later he called me again & wanted me to have a date.finally we could meet each other. we had some conversation on phone after that dating bt he didnt answer my phone in two last times i called him. then i send him a message to finish everything. the only thing he did was sending an email that”i wish u allowded me to talk to each other”. now i dont know what to do. what do u think? is he realy interested in me? what’s his purpose? should i talk to him seriously about ourselves?

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