How To Make a Guy Call You After The First Date

So, you met a guy for a first date and he hasn't called you since. And you want to know how to make a guy call you if he doesn't call. You are wondering why he doesn't call you especially if he said he'd call. There are multiple ways to make a guy call you that you can read more about on This Page – Click Here To Read!

But the thing that I wanted to discuss is that if a guy tells you he will definitely call you after a first date and he doesn't call you, that means he doesn't want to call you. You may be wondering why did he say he'll call you if he was not going to call you. Well, this is very simple really. Think about it; have you ever said to a guy you didn't like, call me? Or when a guy asks for your number after having coffee or a drink at a bar and you feel too uncomfortable to tell him straight up that he is not your type and therefore he shouldn't call you... what do you do? You tell him, sure, call me! And you are secretly hoping that he won't. And when he calls you, you see his number and pray that this is the first and the last time he is calling you, and that by not answering and not calling him back he will get the message.

You never call him back. But why did you tell him it was ok to call you when you had no intention of ever speaking with him again? Exactly! Because you felt too uncomfortable telling him straight in the face you don't want him to ever call you. Period!

This is why he said he'd call you.

Why are women so in denial all the time about phone calls? If a guy doesn't call you that means he doesn't want to. And if you call him and he doesn't answer and doesn't call you back, that means he does not want to talk to you. If he wanted to talk to you, he'd call you. Trust me, he would.

What if he lost my number?

Awwww..... you ponder....

Let me tell you this, I have met guys who legitimately lost my number.... and you know what they did? They went out of their way to exercise their options to find my phone number... they looked me up in the phone book... my phone is unlisted, so they did not find me.... they didn't stop there... they started going places they thought they could find me..... and when that didn't work, they asked bar tenders and waitresses at those place if anyone knew my number....

They asked friends if anyone might know.... and, well, because I have web sites on the Internet, they googled me!

One guy actually wrote to me by commenting on this blog (I deleted his comment)... but he googled my name, found this site and left a comment that he and I met one day some place and he asked for my number and I supposedly gave it to him and then he lost it. So he told me all different things he did in trying to locate me and contact me.

I also had one guy whom I met occasionally at a bar and whom I did not give my number (but I briefly mentioned in our conversation the apartment complex I was living in). Guess what he did? He went to the apartment complex management. We have over a hundred apartments here. He went to the leasing office, told the staff my name and described me... and the staff called me and said, 'there is someone here looking for you; he says he is your friend but doesn't know where you live or your phone number, would you come see him or not?'

I just wanted to tell you that when a guy wants to find you, whether he has your number of not, he WILL find you, so if he doesn't call you after a first date, he is secretly hoping that you will NEVER find him.

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