How To Make Him Call Me More?

Perhaps you are dating a guy who doesn't call you as much as you want him to. This happens to a lot of us. If you are asking how can I make him call me more, this article explains what to do to make a guy call you first.

You probably know that I get lots of e-mails from women asking me all kinds of questions about men, relationships and calling in particular. So, one of my readers sent me this e-mail

Elaine,

I really enjoyed your book Why He Doesn't Call

You have a lot of great info that really helps. Being recently divorced and getting back into the dating scene now knowing many things about dating rules, your book truly helped me put things into perspective.

I have a question though. This guy I am dating doesn't call me as much as I'd like him to. I usually end up texting him when I want to talk to him and set up a date and he always responds to me right away but he doesn't initiate phone calls first. What should I do to make him call me?

Thank you for your advice,

Sandra,

Dear Sandra,

One way to make a guy initiate phone calls more is to stop calling him and texting him first. If you have been dating for a while, you may have unwittingly set the tone by always texting him first.

It's not a bad situation to be in since it sounds like he's been very responsive and always texts you back right away. But what you are doing here is you are showing him that you are in charge.

If you want him to take the lead and start initiating phone calls more so then you, then you should stop calling him fist every time.

It's really up to you to do. I don't see a problem here with him not calling you. It just may be that you are always on the forefront and he doesn't have the opportunity to actually pick up the phone and call you because you are always there calling him.

Give him the opportunity to call you and pursue you if you don't want to feel like you are the pursuer.

Elaine

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