When To Call Him And When Not To Call Him – Questions From Readers

Lots of women e-mail me to ask me this question: how to know when to call a guy and when not to call a guy, so I wanted to address these questions in this article.

First off, if this is a guy you are dating, the dynamics of your relationship will set the tone and the calling schedule, your calling routine, per say. Let's look at some examples.

In a new dating relationship the guy should typically be the initiator of all calling. But that doesn't mean that you should never call him. If he calls you first and leaves you a message, you should not be playing mind games. Give him a call back when you get a chance. Since he called you first, clearly there is no place to mind games.

By him calling you first he already shows you that he likes you and will welcome your call back.

Now, if the guy you are dating calls you sporadically, then you probably shouldn't rush to the phone at the first opportunity. Of course you should call him back when the opportunity presents itself. But generally you should not be making calling him back your priority.

Certain calling patters can tell you a lot about how much the guy likes you. If he doesn't call you enough, perhaps that means he doesn't like you as much as you'd love him to.

But what about a man who doesn't call you at all? Should you call him when he doesn't call you even though you've left him messages?

The answer to this question is clear – if he doesn't call you back, you should not call him again.

A lot of times women don't know when it's ok to call a guy and when not; when it's ok to call him back, and when it's better to stop calling.

On the next page you will learn how men perceive phone calls and what to do when a guy doesn't call you